That’s my standard. I take a split second to think, “will my life be better if I allow this app to bug me?”
But again, the problem here is the Apple created app doesn’t ask; much like the way they pester you to update without offering you a “fuck off with that noise” response that stops it from popping up again a day or two later.
I feel like they are the most passive aggressive corporation I’ve interacted with as a consumer (so far).
But it’s better than MS who don’t care what you happen to be doing when they decide it’s time for you to update.