Or you could do what many Neurodivergent folk do:
Completely miss that the other person is insulting you in the moment then suddenly realise in a flash what was going on, days or years later, then spend most of your life unable to take anything anyone says about you on face value, no matter how complementary it is, just in case it’s an insult you haven’t got yet.
'Cause, let me tell you, that’s awesome.
