That type of person is also likely to be accusing someone of being depressed, so that then they can be in controlling position of lecturing them about what they need to do to stop being depressed. And those accusations can literally be endless until the powerless person finally “confesses” to being depressed. Not being depressed is an unforgivable sin, because it deprives the accuser of a handle on the other person. Depression is their stock accusation because it’s a projection of their own depression, which is extremely common for folks who see themselves as being a real “people person” when that is the furthest thing from the truth.
