My room mates cat has a weird crush on me. I’ve never even fed her, and yet she comes darting in to cuddle every morning when my bedroom door opens, and sometimes she sleeps cuddled up to me. Cats like people who give them affection. It helps to know what they like- how to stroke the fur on the head and neck just right. They will guide your fingers where they want them. They are incapable of loving as we understand love- they are fundamentally selfish creatures, concerned only with their own comfort and pleasure… They are nothing like dogs- simpering, nuerotic and co-dependant, feingning human emotion to get what they want out of us.