Yeah … I attended a party at one of the local dungeons this past Saturday night. There was absolutely a lot more going on there than just “grabbing some hog,” yet no one seemed particularly worried about it because we weren’t in a public theater or blowing vape smoke at pregnant women! Go to a location where everyone has consented to such things, stay at home, or otherwise be where you’re not intruding on the rights of others, or just don’t do these things at all.
Although I will note she sure as hell wouldn’t be allowed in any of the local clubs around here. (Because our local community does a pretty decent job of filtering out predators and other offenders.) Luckily I’m quite sure she can afford a hotel or her own damned house!