As I said, I know that it’s not a workable system. I brought it up to show that, as someone who is (to say the least) socially awkward, having a system of well-defined rules for dating, plus an advisor to help people navigate through those rules, is an idea that seems better than our current system of “anything goes.”
The rest of my post is simply me getting hung up on what such a system of rules might entail. Really, though, it all comes down to this:
