I’m not sure, really. This is a lot of judgement, including the phrase ‘red flag’.
I agree its unfortunate, but how about “I feel bad for the guy”, instead? A lot of people get into gummies because the other person in the relationship has a strong negative reaction to smoke and smell of pot. But they also get into gummies because the partner is very moralistic about pot, period. Gummies allow you to be more discrete. He could have been hiding consumption because of an overbearing negative reaction from his spouse.
In a perfect world, we can all be upfront about our behaviors, but you always have to pick your battles. The spouse’s reaction to his pot habit might have been just as destructive and shaming.
