I completely agree that movies, TV, and video games present a completely unrealistic and hyper romanticize use of firearms.
I can think of one movie - an out take from We Were Soldiers - where guns were shown how they are actually used in the real world by most people (group of soldiers in off hours with their girlfriends shooting clay targets while talking about Plumlee.) I am sure there are a few more examples, but they are very far and few between.