Aw, that looked promising! I can’t see the excised posts (since they are now, y’know, excised) but I suspect they were full of the usual MRA nonsense. Or similar.
Could @IronEdithKidd and @anon61221983 and @Missy_Pants and of course @ChickieD resume the conversation? I love their insights in any context, and I hate to see such a good-faith examination of this issue be cut off at the knees.
I, of course, have an anecdote or two to contribute, but I’m gonna shut up first for a bit. 