How the "kindly brontosaurus pose" can get you anything you want

All true. Even cooler is the real reason that requesting a favor works:

A) It flatters the person of whom the favor is asked, so they let their guard down a little, leading to…
B) It unconsciously short-circuits the other person’s enmity, because why would they do a favor for someone they don’t like?

There’s a great You Are Not So Smart podcast episode on this.

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