What @anon67050589 was imparting here was that once it’s either grilling or a career, it’s traditionally considered men’s work, but when it’s free labor, it’s women’s work. She’s pointing out the gender disparity, not arguing that certain people shouldn’t do something.
Of course, historically being a soldier or firefighter is considered men’s work (although there are plenty examples of women in combat through out history.
I don’t think the OP was clear, but this is clearer… sort of? I guess I’m still not sure how the other 2 roles being opened to women now fits in with this line of thinking?
