[quote]Well, if I didn’t have the genitals that the person I was dating expected, I think I’d try to really establish a connection before letting it come up. (I’m sure there are some others who might bring it up early, just to get it out of the way, but for a relationship that hasn’t gotten to that level I think bringing up genitals at all would kick in the TMI factor.)
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I would figure there’d need to be at least a minimal connection after nine months of dating, and it’s probably time to be truly honest. Same for if she wanted the traditional route of no sex before marriage. If he waited until afterward to reveal, I think that wouldn’t be fair at all to her, no matter his condition.
As for no-penis vs. Franken-penis, I would figure perhaps it would be better to at least see what he’s been missing, if it works out. If not, there’s no need to force it.
