Well, I have generally followed the three-date rule, and if I make it that far, it’s always fallen into two specific categories - either no kiss yet and I assume there’s no interest, or we wind up in bed if we haven’t already.
And I mean real “let’s hang out together intentionally and specifically just us two” kind of dates where there’s no ambiguity.
For me, I like nothing less than laying all my cards out on the table. Even if I have no penis, I figure nine months has got to show some element stretching the concept of commitment?
I think I would feel the same about a serious/chronic STD.
