Medallion Status: comparison is the thief of joy, and John Hodgman is the thief-taker

[GutRot]

@AllegedSausageRoll

Of course they’re going to become uncomfortable somewhere along the way if you’re really offering them a new point of view.

You’ve answered your own question here. You want a phrase to teach someone an uncomfortable truth that doesn’t make them uncomfortable.
I too wish unicorns existed.