All of this centers the subjective experience of people who have less to struggle with.
This is despite constant, constant explanations that pointing out that some people have more roadblocks isn’t saying that white people don’t get cancer.
It’s an unending wall of “Well, privileged people struggle too” when that is not debated or unacknowledged, but it it is a derail of what’s at issue.
It’s like complaining about the tone and timbre of a fire alarm, with wildly disproportionate concern about how it was “startling” or “interrupted a hard-earned lunch”, and never again talking about the fire.