Pfft! Maybe your spouse is just in a huff! Because running down to the court house in a huff is a thing that people do… right?
I don’t even understand that argument at all.
If someone wants to a leave a relationship, even over something trivial “they leave toothpaste in the sink” - let them go! Why would anyone, let alone the state, want someone to stay with a person that DOESN’T WANT TO BE THERE? This makes no sense!?