Um… I think you’re reading a lot of things into my comments that are not there, like, at all?
We’re having a rather reasoned and civil conversation about all the pressures (and privileges) placed on women, white and women of colour, and how that can subtly manifest in a myriad of different ways, that can include the subtle pressure to look a certain way. At no point have we disparaged anyone for being “too white” or for being … I don’t even know not white enough?
I honestly don’t know what it is that’s got you riled up. Did you read the article these comments are stemming from? Its about the use of African American women as a backdrop to white sexual fantasies. It’s a really good article.