You make a lot of assumptions.
Whereas sharing exploits with the public helps get them fixed, free soloing helps no one. Glorifying free-soloing is just as bad as glorifying smoking. Call it hyperbole all you want, but it’s true.
As for my leg, you are correct that it was my choice. I only share the story because it’s a cautionary tale. Climbing comes with risks, but typically we train people to manage those risks.
