No, we can’t. So when someone says you are coming across as patronizing, it is in your best interests to re-evaluate how your tone could come off as patronizing.
We are lucky to have a diverse group of users who have self-identified as women here. Far more than most mutant-centric forums do. It would be wise to listen to them when they tell you how your words and actions may be construed as patronizing or dismissive, regardless of your intent.
