True, and we have moved pretty far from my original point. The fact that we don’t know one way or the other shows that rapist status is not something people share with others, so it is not really appropriate to describe as a culture. Or at least not one that I have experienced, which is sort of what I said in my first post.
Well, that hasn’t been my experience. I do try to be selective about who I hang out with, it is possible that I have been more successful in avoiding such people than I realized. It is possible that this makes me a bit sheltered.