That’s the thing though, there’s no inevitable teleological vector of progress in society and there’s always room for persons to fuck up any progress made, leaving us worse than we began.
In all sincerity, you should take into account that all these “in your experience” anecdotes do not invalidate someone else’s direct life experience in their skin.
I do my best to try and understand and I think I succeed more times than not, but as a fellow white dude I’d rather work with what people live and try to figure out actual solutions versus parroting talk radio “personal responsibility” narratives.
What you “see” and the narrative you carry on is divorced from reality.