The nine rules of "Freddish": the positive, inclusive empathic language of Mr Rogers

One of the extraordinary things about “Freddish”* is that it manages to be respectful and compassionate and empathetic toward the person being addressed while not for a moment abdicating the responsibilities of leadership and expertise. Fred Rogers listened to children as much as he spoke to them, an amazing feat considering he was a TV personality.

Contrast with the current norm of leaders (and not just politicians), where a position of authority is signified by a performative lack of listening – sometimes under the cover of pretending to listen.

[* beyond it being a great guideline for writing in general]

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