No, this one was a man. And an old enough man that he should have known better, since he had apparently been practicing law for decades. Just a spoiled old guy who was used to lazy work and easy money. Don’t dare to take his cookie away! Or, at least, don’t put your hands near his mouth. XD
I was representing myself, so the guy assumed that I would go along with just anything, and was pushing advice to my ex which was not even remotely legal. It would created more finance and custody problems for both of us.