By now you have both insulted us.
I am sick of autism being used as an insult, and when it’s a disability, it’s because society is built around allistic people, and generally speaking around neurotypical people on ach spectrum, and is not built to consider our needs. For example, the grocery store across the street is built with painfully strobing, painfully loud fluorescent lights, which are a hazard to some autistic people and some epileptic people.