Fine if you’re somebody with some agency; if you’re some depressed teen with full-on identity drama (and we forget how dramatic it was back then), the thing is a rap on the nose and OI PERVERT, STOP DOING THAT.
It’s a step back to the bloody 1950s.
Sneakiness: this is private filtering companies contracted by private telcos, “strongly encouraged” by the gov. You’ll see the Powers That Be sliding away from any blame smooth as a greased [REDACTED].