The idea that you’re so disgusted by a race that you have to “not waste your time” by stating that you don’t want anyone from the race to proactively contact you is pretty shitty.
It’s not about preferences, its not about thoughtcrimes, it’s about this weird revulsion.
Attitudes like this do a great job illuminating the topic, how entrenched racism is in “supposedly enlightened” marginalized groups.
Similarly, feminism has a lot of similar harrumphing about how people are unfairly targeted for these “overzealous activists”.
Good job at helping describe the problems that exist while attempting to minimize/excuse them.