We’re just going to have to agree to disagree on this.
Good! That’s what I was criticizing in my first reply to your first comment, the wish that she had died. I was hoping it was merely a hyperbolic statement made in the heat of the moment. In that it would be totally understandable, and I’ve done the same.
If she’s an alcoholic, I have some sympathy having witnessed in multiple cases how addiction fundamentally changes a persons brain and behavior. But again, we’re not going to agree on this and there’s no point in going around in circles.