This has been known for about 25 years.
It is still massively common for Neurotypicals to label people like me as lazy, unmotivated, zero ambition, directionless, and a slacker.
Growing up with everyone making sure to tell you that’s what they think about you, you end up believing it.
Feels great to constantly be told I never achieve my potential at fucking everything. Especially at stuff I don’t and CAN’T give a fuck about but apparebtly matters hugely to everyone else.