There’s “hitting on” women, and there’s “having a conversation with a woman that you happen to also find attractive.”
Edit because I’m not even through my first cup of tea: Let me put it to you this way. It is entirely possible that some people on this BBS find me attractive. I’ve posted pictures before. But I don’t know about it because the people here choose to have conversations with me instead of commenting on how attractive they find me. That’s the difference.
