To answer your questions in order: no and yes. Hitting on women is a power play centered around the male’s desires, not the female’s. It’s a situation where the male has decided that the female shall have his attention and that she shall appreciate it. There’s no agency for the woman involved in this interaction.
Now, let me ask you a couple questions. Do you wolf whistle or cat call random women on the street? Have you ever commanded a random woman to smile in a public space?
