I meant more the general reaction that women will tend to get from men - plenty of men and women will say that they’re not feminists for different reasons (e.g. they feel it divides people, they approve of complementarian role models etc.), but there seems to be a significant amount of anti-feminism and real antagonism towards equality or women in general in some circles. I see it in the UK to some extent too, but less in Germany (or at least, in the couple of places I’ve lived there). I think people recognise and respect systems more when their own needs are being met and they know that the government and society around them has their back. You deserve a basic standard of life, and so does everyone else. More libertarian systems seem to see it much more as a zero sum game where there’s a chance that you can rise above the rest of society and therefore shouldn’t put too much effort into supporting it. Also, the more work you put into society and the more you see your wellbeing as dependent on your community’s success, the more value you see in other people’s chances of a healthy and comfortable life. I love the Scandinavian concept of ‘lagom’, which seems to promote contentment rather than raw ambition and be directly anti-capitalist. Societies that value that do seem to have better gender relations, in my limited experience.
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