Personally, I’d ask them. If I can’t find one to ask, probably not terribly relevant to me and my own business.
Well, IDK whether Borderers is one or not (perhaps you know that they are not?), but they were the person using a term in a way that didn’t quite mesh with my own understanding. Speaking as an enby person, I always think it’s my own business to learn about how other queer people prefer their associated terminology to be used, rather than just remaining ignorant.
