I tried to watch the videos from the woman and this dude. I didn’t make it too far. I’m sure there must be more to her story, but all I could see is her yelling at this guy because he told her a dumb nickname and she wanted to make it about sexually harassing her.
I didn’t even get right away that she thought it was a dick joke because I’ve known people to go by that name as an internet nickname/handle and they were all large dudes and this guy is a large dude so I thought it was a sort of self-empowering fat joke.
Unfortunately there are just at many people who will see a woman of color accusing someone of harassment and assume she is 100% correct as there are who assume the opposite because of their own ingrained bias.
