Hi @WalterPlinge
I only included BGA as a place to start looking on the page. Prior to him, most characters were not playable. Also, you might want to realize that women - as a sex - arenât handled much better by most most game designers. Protagonist women are still often hopelessly badly designed as characters. That list includes includes women who are present, not well written.
Also, I think that at this point, the games that include the option to just play as a female or male and then at some point have a relationship with a same sex character, are letting you make a sex choice without stereotyping the player. Theyâre your best option for a ânot stereotypedâ gay lead who is obviously gay.
Not all gay people are alike - there isnât one way to âbe gayâ. (Just ask these guys.) Not sure how many gay people you know, but a âtwinkâ is not âbearâ and a gay man is not a lesbian. So, if the question is âis sexuality addressed?â you almost have to do one of these three things to a game:
⢠Use stereotyping to identify the character as gay (because society is shallow or the game doesnât include sex)
⢠Show them in a relationship with a same sex partner, or make that a plot point - even that could be considered stereotyping, depending on how the relationship is used.
⢠Involve a choice for for same-sex sex/dating at some point in the game (but make the character neutral)
Remember, youâre talking about whether or not a âgayâ character exists, and then saying âbut I donât want them stereotypedâ and âI also donât want their game involvement based on a romantic relationshipâ. Guess what? Any number of games you played could have had gay protagonists if their sexuality wasnât mentioned - thatâs exactly how you make a gay protagonist without stereotyping or including a romantic relationship. You just donât talk about what theyâre doing in the bedroom.
For example, you can choose right now that Counterspy has a gay lead. Heâs not shown in any romantic relationship with a female, so itâs up you to decide if heâs straight or gay. He looks a lot like this guy:
So no one would blame you for casting Cary Grant (who was gay) as the lead, and letting him play true to life.