Are you okay?

Shadow Work Journaling

Pretty low-hanging fruit there. . .

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Are you depressed? Have you tried ruminating on that depression? It really helps me stay depressed about how depressed I am!
:clown_face:

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It’s true, ruminants rarely do seem especially happy.

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I mean, just look at it.

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I can’t say I’m okay yet, but certainly doing better. I’ll know for sure in May, but I think my estrogen levels are finally starting to go up. I can now look in the mirror without wincing and instantly seeing a guy. It won’t seem like much to anyone who’s never suffered from dysphoria, but wow—this is such a profound step for me.

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When I started regularly seeing me in the mirror instead of him, it was such a great change, so I completely get you! I’m definitely not OK either, mostly thanks to the world around me basically hating my guts for daring to be myself, but it’s a lot better than the gray empty nothingness that was my life before.

Congrats on the milestone, hope things keep changing in the ways you want. :purple_heart:

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Au contraire, ma sœur! This is huge!
You wrote you aren’t all the way where you want to be yet, but congratulations on this milestone.

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Wonderful to hear! Thanks for sharing with us!

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You’re winning, hon, just keep being you as hard as you can!!

:transgender_flag::heart::orange_heart::yellow_heart::green_heart::blue_heart::purple_heart::brown_heart::black_heart:

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cat throwing confetti

congratulations flower shower on white

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Thanks

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That’s better than okay. Why it’s “Good (Encouraging) Stuff” even! Congratulations!

You’ve earned this step and you deserve it.

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Wonderful even!

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Thanks

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An update, had my appointment today and i was right — my estrogen levels have gone up and are within the target range. Testosterone remains effectively nonexistent and progesterone was added to my regimen.

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Hell yeah!!!

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Woohoo!

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To start off—I am okay, not seeking any sort of emotional support—just venting. Whatever follows constitutes a stream of consciousness and is nothing more than an emotional release to keep myself from boiling over—between the continued societal acceptance of mass death, an increase in rainbow capitalisms acceptance of transphobia and other anti LGBTQ sentiment, as well as our steady descent into fascism, I need a release and this is better place than derailing some other thread.

I’m already a couple of drinks deep with more coming because FUUUCCCKKK do I miss the numbness of semi-depression—fuck you HRT and the return of healthy emotional responses. Other than the death of a grandparent and the dysphoric breakdown that necessitated my transition, I haven’t cried in a long time. Yet here I am, in a state of unfamiliar emotional health as we descend into madness—learning to process things all over again.

As much as the transphobia bothers me, a bunch of dead children has just crushed me. What the fuck are we doing? Things were so much easier when I didn’t feel—when I could just dismiss emptiness for rationality. Is this really who we are, who we aspire to be—a nation that accepts the regularity of mass death? Because, as much as it’s my or the the fault of anyone here, we do in a small way share the blame for the society we inhabit. We are falling into darkness and I don’t see us getting out.

The Columbine massacre occurred when I was a teenager and mass killings have only increased. For a time I found solace in the increasing support for LGBTQ and other minority groups rights. Yet, here we lie on the precipice of the backlash. I find comfort in the knowledge that things have been worse before and those before me persevered. As I stated before, I am okay and I am ready to fight back against the growing darkness—I don’t need hugs or support, just the catharsis of releasing internal tension. I’ll wake up tomorrow, feel a little better, continue on with my life and persevere, while I continue to process the direction we are headed.

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