What about you?
See, this is the problem here, an obvious failure to communicate.
When people of privilege (or as you say, contrarians, even those professing “good faith”) have these conversations, they tend to seem to think it’s all about them, and how valid their ideas are, philosophically.
When POC, LGBTQ people, immigrants, disabled people, and anyone else who is or has been historically marginalized by TPTB engage in these discussions, we’re generally coming from a position where we have actual “skin in the game;” we’re doing real RISK ASSESSMENT, and the outcome affects our real, 3D lives, often in ways that can be completely detrimental.
It’s not any esoteric ‘thought exercise’ for us, it’s reality…one which seems in serious danger of becoming a dystopian nightmare, if certain factions get their way.
Personally, I’m concerned about actually surviving to see the next presidency; I’m worried about my kid still having clean air to breathe and clean water to drink by the time she’s an adult, even if she’s not “rich.”
I’m worried about her future access to affordable health care and contraception, as well as her being able to maintain her overall autonomy over her own body.
I’m worried that my kid may finish growing up in a world where the rule of law means absolutely nothing, and those in charge don’t even bother with the facade of ‘freedom and justice for all’ any more, because only the very wealthy & powerful have a chance in hell at getting either one.
I live in trepidation of the future facing the next generation, because it seems we are at a dire cross-roads for all of humanity…
So again, when you deign to ask such a self-absorbed question in the face of the immensity of my understandable consternation, (a sentiment which is literally shared by millions of people on the planet) and you ask:
“What about me?”
I can only reply:
What about you?
The better question is: