Disclaimer: I am not a electrical engineer, just an experimenter.
I don’t know what kind of LEDs you work with, but the ones I play with can be dimmed by simply limiting the current through them. Raise the series resistance and you’ll lower the output (until they go out below their forward voltage).
Auto tail lights use PWM for a different reason. By pulsing them, the designers can overdrive the LEDs to get more output from cheaper LEDs.
If they overdrove them at 100% duty cycle, they’d overheat and fail (especially since efficiency falls when they’re overdriven). But at a lower duty cycle, heat buildup (roughly proportional to the average of the current through them) is reduced enough to keep them working.
Without the thermal inertia of a filament, the LEDs are off when the PWM input is at zero. However, your eyes’ persistence of vision makes them look like they’re glowing steadily, unless you move your eyes rapidly.
As for the LED festoon strings (Christmas and other specialty lights), there may be better ones, but every mass market LED string I’ve seen so far has the crudest and cheapest design possible. There is no dedicated rectifier and no current limiting. They just connect a bunch of LEDs in series across the AC line, trusting them to not suffer reverse breakdown and to share the voltage roughly equally.
Depending on the consistency of the LEDs, it’s possible that some of these LEDs may not have that much more life than incandescent festoon string bulbs.
I’ve read that LEDs tend to fail shorted, so when they do, the rest of the string will keep working - that is, until too many short. However, the one failure I’ve had in an LED string I own was an open, so YMMV.
Yes, these strings flicker. I can’t stand 60 Hz CRT flicker, and it makes me just as crazy to look at LED festoon strings, so I use mine outdoors, not on the tree. I’ve been tempted to try driving them with filtered DC, but I’m afraid they’re designed for 50% duty cycle and will fail if run at 100%.
To bring this back more or less on topic, this messaging system reminds me a little of the fad several years ago for using “ultrasonic” (15-20 kHz) noise to create “adults only” areas.
http://www.bbc.co.uk/wiltshire/content/articles/2006/04/04/mosquito_sound_wave_feature.shtml
It’s also a bit reminiscent of the similarly “ultrasonic” mobile phone ringtones - from about the same time - that let kids “stealth” their phones in school by setting the incoming text alert to these > ~15 kHz tones.