OK let me give you all a simple example of why the most important thing is to be a good ambassador for cycling.
London cab drivers - the proper black cabs that you all know - are famous for being mouthy. When they see any cyclist misdemeanour, they just mumble ***“what a bunch of cunts”***.
They use the word in it’s deep-meaninged 1970s English way. It means asshole, menace, dangerous, needs sorting in a dark alley by Big Fred, annoying, difficult to deal with, etc. It’s actually a pretty deep thing, and if a cabbie calls you a cunt, you know you have a problem.
Cabbies are a tight-knit bunch. They gather at bacon sandwich boxes (these hard to see green sheds hidden around London), and discuss, amongst other things, not the US government shutdown, but how cyclists are a bunch of cunts.
They then drive around the city, all day, making a living. The cultural prejudice against cyclists builds up, they go from being annoyed to incensed. They cut you up, they threaten you, they go ballistic, they drive like cunts.
It’s a self-reinforcing thing. The issue is, they drive tons of steel around, and I ride 25 pounds of steel. There is only one release valve, and that’s the cyclists.
I’m seasoned, aware, alert, I ride like my life depends on it (it does, right), but a lot of cyclists aren’t. And I see these taxis, delivery vans, dump trucks, all treating cyclists like shit. Wobbly Mary the student from the Outer Hebrides gets no more mercy than Sir Wiggo (who himself was knocked off his bike by a car exiting a gas station).
They wouldn’t do it if they respected cyclists a little more. But they’re not going to, because they’re am intransigent bunch, and they have the common unity of sitting behind a wheel all day watching 10% of cyclists be dicks - which, when you simplify the equation, makes 100% of cyclists cunts.
Because the 10% get pumped on adrenaline, and are utterly unaware of the influence the carry, we all get it in the neck.
The key, the vital key, to this all is not necessarily tight adherence to the law - but etiquette, respectful riding, “strong riding” (like a motorbike, there are many circumstances when a cyclist should simply take all the space of a car in his/her lane), diplomatic apologies when needed, gracious thanks when due, and be an ambassador courting goodwill.