I think you mean the one to me. I thought it sounded kind of nonpologetic, both since it wasn’t made to the two of you, and what I had called out wasn’t the affront but lying about the ban. But hey, I figured, we will know soon enough whether he decided to be nicer or was just learning how far he could push things.
I don’t know what gender he thinks I am; for both me and Humbabella I know different people have guessed different pronouns. I’ve been treating it as a sort of reassurance of anonymity, which is probably stupid anxiety about opening up to people that I should work on, but I also think it’s sort of an interesting glimpse at how I come across to others.
