Again, you completely glossed over the important bits, and really don’t get the law.
My explanation of WHY these laws apply to retail establishments engaging in commerce as part of an organized society was somehow completely missed by you. Fancy that.
You really don’t seem to be well aware of what the law says or why it says it. The law isn’t written in an effort to “compel people to act against their wishes”. It’s written to neutralize trade among ALL people in a diverse society. No one person is being told “only you must act this way” - every person must deal with every other person in the same fashion.
Not only that, failure to have this type of law actually does result in a social and political atmosphere that encourages the direct harming of specific target groups. This isn’t just about “not selling you something”. This is also about ensuring that people will not be seen as second-class citizens, unwelcome in a society occupied by you.
By only talking about the The Civil Rights Act as a source you’re forgetting a pretty important document. The Civil Rights Act didn’t just appear out of thin air. It’s actually based on the Declaration of Independence, and ensures that equal rights noted in the DoI will be guaranteed through the Constitution - because that hadn’t been happening through the 1950’s. It has been declared Constitutionally sound.
We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights, that among these are Life, Liberty and the pursuit of Happiness.
The “pursuit of Happiness” is where equal trade comes into play. If people cannot live equally through trade in a society, and thus gain equal status, there is no true equality. You’ve created a second class by default.
Civil law requires that any business occupying a space in the grid of possible businesses to do business in a location follow equality laws. I already explained this, but I’ll do it again:
In a limited space, only a certain number of businesses of a certain type will be allowed to operate. Those businesses must cater to the maximum number of people - that’s beneficial for the economy and for the people living within the area. If a person wants to be a serious, commercial business person, they need to understand their decisions affect not just them but: any employees they have, any customers they have, the local economy, the local real estate values, and more. So, the The Civil Rights Act ensures that businesses operating under license will cater to all members of the community surrounding them.
You really don’t know what you’re talking about. Private clubs actually also have other requirements - not just a “for pay” membership. Most private clubs are npf’s. If you’re curious about them, you may want to read this to get started. They are an ENTIRELY DIFFERENT class of business.