Personally, I think there is a marked difference between college students wearing a costume as part of a mocking trivialization of its origin, because it’s “funny”, and elementary aged children wearing a costume because they see something worth emulating in a character and they want to be that person, if only for a night.
So I know you wrote some words to someone else, frustrated with the people who criticized this and won at having gone “too far”. I’m going to digress here, too, because I’m not sure how productive the conversation you’d have with them would be, but I honestly believe the same thing.
Conversations like this are frustrating to me, because the people getting upset have the power to stop the second, but don’t have the power to stop the first: A company like Disney that is at least remotely conscious of the need to maintain an image of doing the “right thing”, who caters almost exclusively to the second group, shuts their operation down in response to criticism, but the third party garbage marketed to the mocking audience… that’s going to keep going, because those companies don’t care at all.
I just wish people would stop a moment and think about the message they are actually sending to children - especially to polynesian and other minority children! They can go to the store, they can see a bunch of costumes with explicitly white skin (Tarzan, Hercules, basically any white character with significant muscles that shows skin will have skin fabric), and those are apparently alright (or at least no one seems to be arguing they shouldn’t exist on the basis of racism concerns), but they are effectively being disallowed from dressing as minority character.
That seems fucked up to me. It seems a lot more fucked up than some adult being offended by concerns about cultural appropriation. I want kids to be able to have and embrace minority role models, I want it to be okay for minority characters to be embraced by and be seen as acceptable for broad audiences, I want a future where our children can love a character for what they represent and not be told this character is not for them simply because the color of their skin is wrong.
Because of the people that have criticized this, that’s not possible. I feel like the actions taken by those who were offended by this outfit, pressuring the company to remove the option for minority costumes from shelves, have caused actual harm. Results wise, I can’t help but see this as equivalent to a bunch of white supremacists getting the outfit removed because they think it’s inappropriate for white children to dress as a lesser race, even if the intent is obviously different, and it bothers me that most people seem unwilling to stop and ask if that’s really what they want.
Maybe it’s just a difference of values. Maybe I’m simply wrong. It’s possible, there are undoubtedly countless things I’ve failed to consider. But its frustrating to bring it up and feel like my concerns and values are just being outright dismissed in the most smug and condescending manner possible. I know I’m bringing in feelings I’ve had in similar conversations I’ve had elsewhere, and that’s probably not fair. Or maybe I’ve just had a bad day, and just plain shouldn’t have posted in this thread.
I don’t even know.