Fans kicked out of Boston baseball stadium for ambiguous anti-racism banner

The writer buried the real reason for the fans getting escorted from the stadium. Near the end they say displaying a sign over the wall violates stadium rules. Another issue turned racist when it was anything but.

The message was not very clear. Racism exists everywhere. The media has fanned the flames dragging our country back to the tension level of the 1960’s by sensationalizing anything that can possibly have a racist tint. (Not sure if that was an intended almost pun or not.)

Some folks look for anything that can perhaps, by some stretch of an overactive imagination, be made into a racial issue. There were two articles about some black people getting offended by cotton plants being used for decorations. One in a centerpiece at a dinner and the other with cotton stalks in glass vases to use to decorate. Folks, we all wear cotton, or sleep on cotton, or use cotton in some way. I think it is safe to say that nobody alive knows someone who picked cotton as a slave. My great grandmother was born in 1898, and her mother in 1879, and I knew them both before they passed. Neither of them knew any former slaves. I asked when I was a kid. Great grandmother was 92 or 93 when she passed. My grandmother was 20 days short of 100 when she passed. Our family is from right smack in the middle of Dixie and cotton grew all around their homesteads. I have picked some of that stuff, and bloodied my fingers doing it. I have mega-tons of respect for the men and women who picked cotton before machinery came along to do it.

We need to focus on our future and use our past to guide us. No one group is more or less equal than another. We are all responsible for our lot in life. Opportunities exist for everyone to make their lives better. My family lived in the projects of Birmingham, AL for several years. One of my siblings chose a life of addiction and lives off of the government. My other three siblings and I worked hard, some got an education (youngest has a PhD from University of Alabama), and some went the skilled trade route. With a total of five kids and a stay-at-home mother, we had nothing handed to us. For me, a weird sense of humor, set goals, and stubbornness not to live in the projects helped me keep looking for ways to do better. Now I am retired, own a home, and I am happy. I am not rich by any stretch of the imagination - except I know I have earned what I have. Even the 10 dogs and 7 parrots.

If the demonstrations about racial issues were non-violent, I would join in many of them. I approach problems calmly, logically, and with a clear goal in mind. I also know that no amount of arguing with the police will be successful. Instead, calmly addressing any issues with law enforcement takes stubbornness, determination, and a professional approach several steps above the street cop. Nothing against the police: the vast majority are good people who feel the same as the rest of us. Unfortunately, a few ruin the image of the many. Next time you are at an event, smile and wish the police a safe and pleasant day. You may even find yourself enjoying a conversation. Those men and women are people too. If we can just get the good ones to call out the ones with the bad attitudes, our costrong textuntry would be a better place. Just remember, our attitude sometimes dictates their attitude.

What’s the respectable response for them to have to an attitude of smug self-satisfied superiority?

I’d lean towards calling a chiropractor, see if you hurt your arm with all that back patting, since we’re all on the same team, right, new community member?

Thank you for the warm welcome! My arm is quite sore from epicondylitis; thank you for caring suggestion. My chiropractor and I have been working diligently to fix it. He says it may take months.

I tend to be able to accomplish things without hysteria and violence. I also got rid if any shoulder riding chips many decades ago. Name calling is an ineffective way to make points. Just look at our president. :slight_smile: That was a joke and not a threat! LOL

As for the other, overwhelm them with kindness and politeness. We are all on the same team: the United States of America. Just because someone else is being an ass does not mean we need to do the same. Simply note the name, time, location, and follow up later. I have had my fair share of bad encounters with the police. Two were so bad that the only solution was having the officer terminated. The others only needed some retraining and an apology. One of my careers gave me a skill that allows me to remain calm in the face of danger, anger, adversity, etc: that helps. When I file a complaint, I follow up frequently. I also state what my expectations are to remedy the situation. Sometimes, I have cheated, and recorded the incident. Another time I happened to be on the phone with a close friend who happened to work for me in addition to his first career. He as a LT in the sheriff’s department. This was in the early days of cell phones, so the LT got to hear the entire conversation. My point is that a calm reasoned complaint will get a lot more serious attention than someone screaming and acting unhinged. Besides, smiling at someone as they make an ass of themselves leaves that person knowing he is an ass and wondering just how crazy you are.

It’s a lifetime affliction i hear.

Thankfully, only another 40 or 50 years to go - I hope. Pitching baseball as a youth started this mess nearly 40 years ago. There are periods where it is dormant. It ended my playing days but provided me with an opportunity for one of my careers.

Sounds like a really full life. You could write a book.

It basically just did.

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:frowning: “it?” Really?

I have started and stopped and started and…

I do my best to limit my assumptions about others.

Perhaps a telling using the literary device of ones own personal banner of ambiguity?

Try making sure the plug is securely inserted into the socket.

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Agreed! And I’m beginning to understand why Washington went to town on the cherry tree. No more cherry picking.

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