OK. It’s not a cert, that’s for sure.
To take the conversation further, have you met anyone famous for success built on their own ability? I’ve met a few, and the things my granny told me about how to make it in life are sitting there in plain reality.
Be confident, be assured, don’t portray any weakness, but be humble, adaptable, and make other people feel good about themselves.
All of that takes some figuring, and in tough times, some enormous effort to keep under control - so you have to want the return on your investment more badly than regular people can possible imagine.
There’s no point whingeing “but I sing as well as XYZ” because the voice is a fraction of the package. There’s no point moaning that you “code as well as Zuckerberg ever did” because the code is a portion of the deal.
They stitch everything together in a masterful display of apparent wizardry, but following a kind of showbiz formula: Do it, be seen to do, make sure everyone knows only you can do it, and be in charge of it all.
Every single public personality is manufactured. Everything. Every aspect of their lives is sieved and handled by PR people. None of it is natural.
From the Skype guy to Gene Wilder, the same “right stuff” is in the mix. It can be learned - which was my point about Hollywood kids.
But if one thinks one will ascend to these amazing heights, one has omitted to understand the simple thing one’s granny says: money isn’t everything, or indeed, anything.