Griping about moderation, bias, et cetera

Hey don’t worry about my dumb ass. I just self deleted it. It’s my bad for responding :smile_cat:

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You’re neither dumb, nor an ass; trust, I know plenty of both those types when I see them.

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I saw the original post. I guess i was feeling generous and assumed they just were new and not used to how to be polite. But its gone now anyway.

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Oh my … so sorry for huge delays here … this certainly feel related to downloading hotlinked images.

(we are now tracking this internally and someone will reply here once sorted.)

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I never think to turn to flagging - and end up engaging, and it is usually fruitless.

My worst experiences in these forums have been with people who may have disagreed with my comments, or simply not like them, projecting meaning on to my statements that was not intended and in my opinion not there. I clarify, receive more projections, rinse repeat.

Such situations are difficult to flag as a matter of mis-behaviour may be shades of opinion. My gripe is once I have clarified, and the mis-representations persist, in that case we have strayed into poor behavior, as in a form of mild trolling, that should be moderated. Yet these situations rarely stand out as flags.

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and that’s why we’re all still here and those other fools are not :wink:

One problem is “let it go” is good advice, but “shut up” is against the rules, and we and the mods can disagree about where the line is

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Quick tests:

Uploaded directly:

animated-flower-image-0026

Two images were downloaded locally, seems to have held

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giphy

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Looks like it works

Paul Sun-Hyung Lee Baseball GIF by Kim's Convenience

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@sam

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Oh looks like it is holding out fine, 15 mins passed and the gif is still there.

Not sure what we did, but I did deploy our latest codebase on Friday so maybe that is related.

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Unfortunately,

Assume good faith and like the good

is a hard policy to enforce properly. At the same time, most people think they are better than they actually are at recognizing intent. Once you’re in a situation as you’ve described, the easiest thing, and best for personal mental health, is to disengage and go for a walk.

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I’m not griping about getting moderated (it was deserved), but I am a bit confused about the order in which things happened. As seen in the picture below, both posts were removed before they were hidden. Is this system lag in the automatic notices, or was the mod response pretty much instantaneous?

Again, not complaining about the moderator action, just curious about the order in which I got the notices.

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my only gripe in having my first post in 9(!) years removed ( for being off topic ) is that i will probably never surpass that streak again.

will we even have the internet in 2031? won’t we all be living on the moon by then?

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Isn’t there a thread for questions like that? Aren’t they off topic here?

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Didn’t the “questions to be asked” topic close though?

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Can we know for certain if it is closed or open without checking? And doesn’t that make its current status both a little open and a little closed? Is it even a thread anymore? Maybe it’s ajar?

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Is this now the Questions To Be Asked topic?

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Isn’t the only question in this thread ‘Why me?”

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sassy sarah silverman GIF by HULU

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