How to combat manspreading on the subway - sit on the offender

some quick background on that phrase:

  1. originally referred to a field implement ( in literal ancient history. )
  2. became associated with cards around the same time as it became a term for people with black skin, both in relatively recent history.
  3. the new usage first had a neutral sense, but it quickly became a slur.

lots of people don’t know the negative connotations, but lots of others do. it might be best to avoid it altogether because of the weight it has.

( fwiw: vonnegut is great. maybe his use of it shows how privilege lets even a politically-minded and thoughtful writer be oblivious. kind of like i’m sure there are manspreaders out there who haven’t ever thought about their… spreading. ick. )

this npr code-switch piece has a good summary about the phrase.

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