Yeah, massive thread de-railment resulting in the bruising of egos and the indignity of invoking an Electric Stove Range as comparison. Can’t say I blame the mods (rule 24: Keep The Park Clean), but damn, scary to see it go poof in real time.
Careful, that’s somebody’s fetish. Not me, who do you think I am, @japhroaig?
Try banning menz from wearing gauge earrings in Austin and you’d see just how quickly the revolution can come.
Slightly more seriously and very slightly more on topic, secondary sex organs seem highly idiosyncratic. I know lots of guys nipples are arousal regions (don’t ask me how I know and I won’t tell), but it’s never been a thing for me. I keep that in mind because I figure if dudes’ arousal regions can be that different, then my guess is so can anybody’s. Hence my rule of thumb: When in the sack, ask for guidance; when not in the sack, mind your own damn beeswax you pervert!
Here’s the thing. I once was such many moons ago. And now that I know what time it is, I’m among those who can just not get involved in these threads I foresee heading south. But I’m a dude. Not the Dude, but still a dude. Women, they can’t escape this. I don’t just mean this particular thread. It’s their rights on the line. So for allies like us who can pick and choose battles to fight, it’s important to remember that we can do that because it isn’t our human dignity at stake. Beyond that, because I know your comment was meant well, understand that they know all about that. They know their tone is being judged because that’s how it’s been for them since they were old enough to talk. If sometimes some women get a little trenchant, I politely advise realizing that they have their own reasons.
Because for some men, boobs aren’t about the human being they’re attached to, but about how they make them feel. They see them as being related to sex instead of sustenance, because they personally find boobs attractive, so they must be about sex…