I agree with the other posters that this is a great topic for this community and thank you for bringing this perspective. Football is a brutal sport, but it’s also one that brings people great joy. This dichotomy and the massive scale of the NFL makes this an eternal debate in a way that other sports just don’t trigger, even if they have higher incidence of injuries. For better or worse, football occupies a singular place in American culture and it’s important to actually discuss it with a sensitivity toward everyone’s perspective.
When this topic comes up, the health and well-being, whether that’s physical, emotional, financial or even the complexities of dealing with fame is centered in the conversation. Unfortunately, this often takes the form of abstraction, blanket accusations and dehumanization that in many ways ends up totemizing and victimizing the people actually affected; the players and their families. Regardless of our high emotions around the subject, theirs is the primary perspective that really matters and also the one that is least listened to. And when we actually listen to them, it’s pretty clear that the complexities of the debate are not lost on them, but in fact a daily reality and struggle for them as well.
There are a few things that everyone but the most pigheaded fans can agree on:
The NFL is a cruel and deceitful organization that centers profit over players.
Black men are disproportionately the recipients of this cruelty and dehumanization and many players of all races suffer greatly for their involvement. This is also true of the NCAA, MLB, NBA, etc. They all have miles and miles to go before it can ever be considered equitable. And unfortunately, because of the makeup of society, professional sports are often the only avenue many young people see to a viable future for them and their families.
The game of football has for all of its existence relied on the brutality of the game as a draw which, in turn, has bred an often nasty audience that often acts out the on-field violence in their own lives.
That being said, I think it’s crucial to once again bring the framing back to the people that matter most; the players and their families. When this subject comes up it is almost as if they are being referred to as avatars of our projected anguish instead of very intelligent people with heart, perspective and, like it or not, a deep love of the game. Jason and Travis Kelce are two current NFL players and brothers who started a podcast this year that is really unprecedented. It presents the inside players’ perspective of the NFL and all of its disgusting glory. I was anticipating this week’s pod because I knew they would center it on the man at the center of this issue in a heart-felt way that would help bring perspective and framing of not only Damar’s humanity, but the very real humans who play for this league. If anyone is interested in how the players themselves are coping and dealing with this trauma, it’s absolutely worth the time, the first 9 mins, especially.
Lastly, I also think it’s worth taking the time to actually center the man who has tipped off this latest debate in a way I’m sure he would never have wanted. It’s so easy to hold them as an abstract bloc, but these players are a varied in their backgrounds, their motivations and their heartbreak as each and every one of us. Let’s please try to keep that perspective when discussing this emotionally wrought subject. He worked extraordinarily hard to get where he is and it’s worth honoring him.
DB Damar Hamlin #3 and his momma.