I have to admit, I get extremely anxious when someone wants to hold my phone. Mainly because I don’t have a significant other, and I don’t trust strangers enough to let it go.
While I was working I deeply resented having to have a phone. Now I’ve retired it is different because I can keep in touch with things wherever I am. But it goes into silent mode at 22:00 and doesn’t come out till 08:00, and I have almost everything in dark mode.
Could have been the Campaign for Commercial Free Childhood, they do bad product roundups called the TOADYs. They have a great mission around reducing advertising, corporate access to kids and commercialism. Their screentime stuff gets a little overboard for me, though. I appreciate the message of “you can’t just stick your kid in front of a screen all day” and their offerings of alternative activities are helpful, but when it verges into absolutes, it loses me.
Ours too. Screens are a baby eye magnet, which is why we don’t let her play with our phones and the TV stays off when she is up.* I think it’s the bright lights and movement that is so entrancing.
*except one time a month ago when she woke up way earlier than expected from her nap and I sat her in my lap while I desperately searched for a save point in Kingdom Hearts II. She was a zombie for all 5 minutes it took.