Sorry to have offended you tremendously, it really wasn’t my intent. I’d be interested to hear why your perspective isn’t a version of the noble savage idea, to your mind? I really am curious.
I’ll come right out and say what my perspective is: For at least the history we have access to, my take is that humans simply haven’t changed that much throughout the ages, in terms of “goodness,” violence, various isms, etc. In fact it seems fairly consistent, although the window dressings are obviously different throughout the ages.
From what I understand of the perspective you shared, and I may have misunderstood it, but you seemed to be arguing that there was some point in the past, when, to paraphrase, “the tribes got along better with one another than they do today.” As I’ve pointed out, with examples (which you dismissed as outliers), it seems the tribes have variously gotten along, and not gotten along, throughout history.
Again, I do genuinely apologize you took the “sorry to break it to you” as a direct attack, it really was a turn of phrase, and I didn’t intend for it to have that level of sting. I’m sorry, and you’re right, it came out sharper than I intended. Take that for what it’s worth – which is nothing, because we’re really just anonymous strangers on the internet.
One of the things I’ve noticed about the bb boards is just how anonymized it is, compared to, say, FaceBook. And I’m no fan of Facebook, and I am a fan of bb! Read the paper 'zine, back in the day. Think it used to be a better website, for sure. But I digress – my point is, as a very anonymous forum, I don’t think it brings out the best in us, at all – and that includes myself.
As an aside, I posted a message a few months ago seeing if anybody in the NYC area was interested in a meetup at some point. I was actually surprised that it received NO attention – not even anyone saying “NickyG, you’re an ass, nobody wants to hang with you.” My sense was, people really like their anonymity here. Frankly, I’m getting over anonymity on the internet – I think it’s leading to more problems than it solves.