I think I know her! She used to always tell me about being stalked and when she dumped me she said “Don’t you stalk me!” and I said “Don’t flatter yourself.” She eventually apologized for that about a year later. She was definitely a narcissist, but not the classic narcissistic personality disorder. I recently found a description of someone very like in the psychology literature - the narcissist who isn’t really out to hurt anyone and keeps several emotionally shallow sexual relationships going at once. But it turned out OK for her, she married “up” and is enjoying a nice bump in status.
By claiming to “stalked” by three guys, it explains those text messages and voice mails from multiple guys. Of course it’s not really stalking (in the sense my friend tried to imply) if they are having sex, it’s more like speed dating for narcissists.
